How to Date an Asian Girl: Tips For Newbies

Have you ever been excited about the prospect of meeting a new guy or girl, only to read their profile and get massively turned off? Maybe you even spent a few dates with a guy who convinced you that he’d be the most perfect person for you only to suddenly find out that you’re totally incompatible. Here are 10 things you should know before you start dating anyone. 1. People Are Telling You the Truth. Don’t assume that people who tell you they want kids are actually going to be the ones who want to have children, and that people who tell you they want to travel the world for a while are actually going to do it. If you hear anything that worries you, go ahead and ask questions or seek out additional information about that person. Even if the person who’s telling you wants kids is the only one who has kids, it’s still a good idea to confirm it with other sources—like friends and family. Being upfront about what you want and what you’re looking for can be scary, but it’s the best thing you can do to avoid surprises. The fact that someone wants kids or flies off to Europe every month has nothing to do with whether or not they love you. (And don’t mistake compatibility for being the same thing as love. You can be compatible as hell without loving each other.) 2. You Are Beautiful, Inside and Out. If you’re a guy, I’m sure you’ve heard your mom say it more times than you can count, and she’s right. You are beautiful, inside and out, and everyone who meets you sees it. If you’re a woman and you know this already, congrats—you’re still pretty incredible. A lot of other women don’t know it, though, and they can certainly be toxic (and flat-out awful) when it comes to helping you find and pursue a great relationship. This seems like a no-brainer, but never, ever tell a woman that she’s beautiful. Especially if it’s about a guy she just met. Unless you know for a fact that the woman does, in fact, know she’s beautiful, she probably doesn’t. So don’t tell her. 3. If You Think You’re Going to Meet a Person Who’s the Same Age as Your Kids, Don’t Freak Out. First of all, if you have kids and you don’t want to have kids, chances are you
Keep in mind that, first and foremost, this is meant to be fun. After all, isn’t that what Valentine’s Day is about? And second, there’s no reason to be shy on a first date! Women make an effort to look better than they normally would. Think of the outfit you wear on a first date as being a little “less you,” so in a sense, that helps you put yourself out there without appearing overly self-conscious. It’s kind of like a “mindful seduction” where you are more fun, more confident, and “flair” yourself a little bit. So if you are on a first date, here are some of my very personal dating tips to help you be a little bit more charming: 1. I don’t know why women act weird on a first date, but they do. As a guy, I can usually get past it and maybe even benefit from what they do on a first date. It’s the woman who I don’t get. But I get a lot. I remember one girl once explaining to me how she’d been stressed the night before a first date. That’s one way to act! Why? Because you show your man a little bit of your vulnerability? I don’t get it. If someone is truly comfortable with themselves, they don’t have to act weird on a first date. They can relax and make an effort to be a little bit more fun. If you are alone, you can go for a walk around the block for five minutes. If you have a friend with you, go for a walk together for 10. It’s not a big deal. If you want to feel a little more comfortable, have your friend meet you. Don’t be afraid to ask for directions if you are lost. Yes, it’s both weird and awkward to ask someone “How do I get to Starbucks?” but why not ask for directions before you get to the place you are going and risk turning into a pumpkin? People appreciate it. 2. Don’t laugh when a girl tells a joke. I don’t mean laugh before she is finished with a joke. I mean actually laugh when she is actually telling a joke. That’s okay. That’s fine! A good laugh is fine. In fact, it’s perfectly fine to make fun of a woman if she is trying to be funny. But in all fairness, it’s a first date. You should probably be making fun of

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